The reason that the institutions side on the side of women because they are weak and need to be protected but at the same time they want the same outcomes as men. This is completely ridiculous because the top 20% of civilization has access to 80% of the girls. This means that society will fall apart is a grave way. The nature of the world is often not fun to look at but reality is going to be what it is whether you like it or not. We cannot create a utopia because they fall apart quickly.